Fighting too much with family and boyfriend while pregnant help!?

I am 19 weeks pregnant. Lately my family and I fight a lot about my boyfriend the father of my un born child. I have been diagnosed with high blood pressure. Now when my family start to fight with me i ask them if they can stop. They don't stop. They call my boyfriend all kind of names. They dislike him. They have always dislikes the guys I have dated. They call him a scumbag and all that kinda nasty stuff. I do not know what to do. I have told them i don't care if you don't like him but just put your differences away because this is the father of your grandchild. How can you love a baby if you continue to call the father a scumbag and everything? She goes on saying I can love the baby because its innocent. How can you love a child if your dissing the father? Not possible right? But anyways can someone give me advice on how to stop fighting with them? I am always crying and always fighting and am always afraid my baby is gonna die because of them. What do I do?Fighting too much with family and boyfriend while pregnant help!?
i would just not see them while you are pregnant.. if you have high blood pressure that can def raise if you get angry or upset! i would just tell them i cant see you anymore you are making me sick!





also it is possible to love a child if you hate the father! thats just like saying, if you hate your ex but you still love your child.. you know what i meanFighting too much with family and boyfriend while pregnant help!?
Well, if I were in your situation, i'd leave the vicinity if they started talking about things that bothered me.





And it is actually very possible to love a child if you dislike its father.