My friend ditched me for her boyfriend and people who aren't true friends. What should i do?

My friend Sam (not actual name) totally stopped hanging out with me! Ever since she got a boyfriend she's been totally mean. And she invited me to go to a high school football game with her out of the blue and she said ';Your mom's driving though.'; I got so pissed, i mean she always makes my parents drive! (I don't have my license yet). And i found out all of these mean, stupid (do stupid and irresponsible stuff is what i mean by stupid) girls that she calls ';friends'; and her boyfriend were going to be there so she pretty much used me so she could go and leave me while she was off with other people.So she and my friend Carly (not actual name) got in this HUGE fight because Sam read a text on someone else's phone wrong and thought Carly called her fake. And know all of Sam's friends have been causing Carly out in the halls and all that. I want Sam to knock it off and i REALLy don't want to be her friend anymore. But i don't know what to do or how to talk to her and stop being her friend because we've been best friends since 1st grade.My friend ditched me for her boyfriend and people who aren't true friends. What should i do?
Just because you have been friends with someone for a long time does not mean you are obligated to remain friends with her especially when she misuse the relationship. Stop going against yourself for Sam, you are going against what you feel about yourself to please her, that's not right. You must find reasons to avoid her, tell her your parents have other things to do when she insist on your parents to drive. Or straight out tell her that you had rather not go. Enough of this will discourage her from wanting to bully or use you. Sometimes you just have to stand up for yourself for the other person to see that you are worth respecting.My friend ditched me for her boyfriend and people who aren't true friends. What should i do?
find another friend...somebosy who's really true and not fake.
It might just be because shes just excited she has a boyfriend if she doesn't pay attention at all to you anymore than why should you to her?
It is never easy to move on without closure. However, you must ask yourself if ';Sam'; has already moved on. With any relationship, there is always something brought to the table, and something taken away. It seems that while Sam expects for you to bring yourself, your time, and the use of your parents vehicle to the table, she has made a decision that she will only bring herself, and that is only when it is convenient for her.





If you love yourself, understand that not allowing someone to use you doesn't mean that you should be mean to them. Instead, understand that if all you are getting out of this relationship is a friendship of convenience, that is all you are obligated to bring in return.





Good luck, because it sounds as though Sam is a very selfish person. The reality is that when she realizes that she cannot ';persuade'; you to be her convenient friend anymore, she will probably show the ';real'; nasty side of her . I think that then it will be much easier to make a decision as to whether or not you want this type of ';friend'; in your life at all.
you need to try and sit down with her and talk about the way she has been acting. Try not to come of rude or mean though because then she wont want to talk to you. Tell her how you feel and see what she says. If you have to, give her an ultimatum. its eitha you or her boyfriend.
dont be a friend with someone u know isnt one. Find another. a TRUE friend