When some one else keeps butting in your love life, how do you stop it?

well its kind of a long story, but to cut it short ill break it down.


there is a girl who is a skinny lil black girl who used to be a friend of mine and who also used to be my boyfriends ex back in August, well me and him liked each other even before she came along..well after they broke up of 2 weeks together me and him have been boyfriend and girlfriend ever Sense.


well when me and him first got together she wanted to fight me, well of course after that me and him don't communicate with her at ALL.im not a boyfriend stealer she just didn't want me to have him.


well now its been 5 months and me and him are getting engaged and happily together. well she keeps wanting him to do things for her and she keeps trying to take his time from me to spend with her, even though my boyfriend is not going for it. She still keeps trying.


so please help me out because im all out ideas and i love him so much and i don't want her to take him from me!When some one else keeps butting in your love life, how do you stop it?
I have been in alot of relationships,married 5 times,I seen girls like that,but they could never get my man.First,never talk about her in front of him,b/c that would mean you have nothing better to talk about.always ignore people and places where she may be or talked about.Go out of your way so you can not hear anything that is going on in her life,you have your own life,and you do not have time for head games and her childish ways.She will see that you are not the same and that you are not threathen by her.That is the only way that you can do this b/c if you try to talk it out,she will know its getting to you.Never let her know that you are concerned with any part of her life,separate your self from her friends,even if that means friends together.she does'nt have a boyfriend so she hangs with the single crowd,you should not be hanging w/singles b/c you are getting married.Be the adult and the bigger person,this will show everyone in your life that this is serious and it will show your boyfriend that you are mature enough to be married.Sounds like she is bored,let her be misirable alone,you be happy and continue being mature.Good luck, Do not give up!When some one else keeps butting in your love life, how do you stop it?
tell her straight up to leave you guys alone and your boyfriend needs to tell her too. People like that are so annoying. I had the same situation with my ex-girlfriend. Her ex-boyfriend wouldn't stop obsessing over her. Even left his job to move back over here and try to win her over.
this guy named blake thinks i have a thing for him and I DO NOT so whenever i meet a guy he always flirts with me and makes the other guy think im taking it makes me SOO MAD!!
You can't control what anyone else does, what they choose to do. That means you have to cease giving them permission to influence what you think and feel by behaving the way they do.
u n ur bf together gotta go to her n tell her that stay away from him n dnt interefere in ur life.this kind of insult will stop her to interfere.
Tell her straight up ';***** gotta go';.
If he is really in love with you and over the ex you shouldn't have any worries about loosing him to her. I think the responsibilities lie with him to stop this. You need to talk to him and tell him how you feel and you think he should cut off all contact with her. He certainly shouldn't be doing anything for her, if he does this just gives her the idea that he still cares. Talk to him.


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Get your BF to tell her to beat it. Change mobile phone numbers, remove from friends lists etc, forward her emails straight to Junk Mail (bounce if possible). Just stay away from her.