What do you do when you in love with your sister bf of 4 years and you think that he likes you?

What do you do when you in love with your sister bf of 4 years and you think that he likes you?


my sister is 18 and her bf is 16 and i am in love with him most of the time i think that he is hitting on me like he always touches me like he will rub me not like that but you know what i mean and most of the time we talk more than they do if i am a sleep when he come i want to be woke up or i get mad at her most the time he will come up and wake me up we always flirts and sometimes i feel bad because i dont know if she can tell so i try to play it off i yell like stop when we are play fighting or i will be like get you boyfriend most the time they dont act like they go out but when they do it about kills me i dont know what to do like sometimes i am afriad to be alone with him because i dont know what will happen i dont know if i am just thinking he feels like this because i do or if he is really hitting on me i wont go out with anyone else becasue i really do love him i know we could never go out because it is my sister bf i dont know how to get over him cause hes always aroundWhat do you do when you in love with your sister bf of 4 years and you think that he likes you?
Find your own man that is (SINGLE) and let your sister be happy.What do you do when you in love with your sister bf of 4 years and you think that he likes you?
You do nothing. He is your sister's boyfriend. Boyfriends come, and boyfriends go, but sisters are forever, and you wouldn't want to damage that relationship. If they ever break up and he asks you out, then you can ask your sister if she minds if you go out with him. It sounds to me like he's a 16 year old tease, and neither of you should be taking him too seriously. However, as long as they are dating, it's hands-off for you. Also, you're too young to be in love; it's just a strong case of in-like, at best, or maybe you just want him because you know you can't have him.
it's not worth losing your sister. Forget your feelings for this dude
dont go out with him u will then be a backstabbing whore
OK,this is a tough one,but you have got to try and stop entertaining the thought of you and he being ';together';,and I know it is not helping that he is leading you on and flirting with you,but he is your ';sisters'; boy friend.There is some kind of comfort level with this as well because you are around him all the time,you know him real well,and you have a mad crush on him...I used to fall for my brothers best friends all the time,I think for the same reason.You really need to look at this from a rational stand point...say for instance he broke up with your sister,because he wanted to be b/f-g/f with you.What would you do? I don't think you could do that to your sister,and your waiting for them to break up is really pretty foolish because,even in a perfect world with a perfect ending that is going to put a huge strain on your relationship.And then she is going to gladly pay you back some day by stealing one of your boyfriends.His flirting and attention towards you is all you can think about I am sure,but If he were together with you,he may give one of your best friends the same kind of attention,and then what? That wouldn't be all that fun would it?And you probably wouldn't really trust this guy,ever if you ever did get together,and its just not right..blood is thicker then water,and you need to not be fixated on your sisters boyfriend,it would never work.(sorry)
Don't jeopardize your relationship with your family because of this guy. It's not worth it , you can always find a boyfriend but your sister will always be your sister. It's not worth ruining your relationship with your sister plus it will ruin her relationship with her boyfriend too. How can you find someone if you don't go out with other people? Don't obsess with someone who's already taken. I'm sure you can find someone better than your sister's boyfriend, give yourself a chance.