Friday, August 20, 2010

How to make it work with my love?

My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year. We're 18 years old. We adore one another, and we really don't have any serious problems except that for the past month or so we can't seem to stop fighting. Every single day is a dramatic argument. The prospect of losing one another makes us both very emotional. We don't want to take a break. If we did, however, it wouldn't be one of those 'date other people' things. We aren't into that. It would just be for the space. We bicker over ridiculous things- it's mostly rooted in the fact that I am a lot more mature than he is. I dislike his friends and I'm more of a homebody, while he is more sociable and active. He can be irresponsible and I can be controlling. But we're crazy about each other. I don't know what to do and it's got us both down. At this point, we're trying to give in to each other more, not for the sake of the relationship but with sincere understanding. We're trying to be a lot nicer to one another and more patient. We can't let go. Please share your relationship wisdom!How to make it work with my love?
Well you can just stop the ridiculous arguments, you should go outside socialize more or hang out with him more. Be less controlling if you don't like that, and he needs to be more mature.How to make it work with my love?
You are both so young and have a lot to live for. It's important that you both be able to persue your dreams without getting in the way of the others'. I think you are very insightful into the fact that you should take some space from one another to do this. If it was meant to be, it will be.
learn to give in.....he can't argue if you refuse to argue
thers no love with out fighiting lol me and my gf fight all the time but after she just says it's ook and we just hug so you should try doing that after i am irrosble too like you bf lol
Your not nearly as mature as you think hon.


First you insist on maintaining a relationship with a guy you fight with ,not one or two times a week or even 3 times a week but EVERY DAY.


You need to realize that you BOTH need to go to couples counseling and you BOTH need to change, or it is NOT going to work out.


You have faults just like him and if he is such a great guy, why does he have such horrid friends?What does THAT say about him?Or are you just insanely jealous of him sharing his time with anyone else?


You say you are ';controlling'; , that is not a sign of maturity.


If your determined to make this relationship work then you need counseling so a NEUTRAL party can hear both sides, and tell you both what changes you each need to make in order to get along.


If you refuse to do this, then what will happen is more of what you have right now.


Love may be strong BUT it is like a beautiful rose.With each argument, fight etc. a petal falls off, then the leaves fall off, then the stem turns hard and brown and all you are left with is a fist full of thorns hon.

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