I know this is going to cause a fight with me and my boyfriend but..?

how do i stop it?


this is what happend





he got called into work early this morning, so i told him to call me when he knew when he was getting out. well 5 hours passed and i hadnt heard a thing. so i called his work, (bad idea) he always gets yelled at when i call. and he was like idk, its been a very busy day, but you just got me in trouble. so i hung up. a few mins later he called me back, and was like dont ******* call my work, and dont ******* hang up on me either. and i was like i dont want to sit around and wait for you to call me. and he was like well your going to have to wait. and hung up.





i know i was in the wrong for calling his work, he tells me all the time not to.





so when he gets home, how do i make this okay, and not such a big fight?I know this is going to cause a fight with me and my boyfriend but..?
There really isnt much you can do to lessen the degree of the fight. You could have prevented it by listining to him and respecting his wishes regarding not calling him at work. You cant control your boyfriend (making him call you on his work breaks, or lesson how angry he'll be when he gets home) you can only control yourself. So if he comes in the door and you seriously apologize then thats all you can do to lesson the blows. I imagine that you have been through this before because why else would he tell you not to call him at work? He sounded like he was really annoyed by you calling him, and like I said you need to respect his wishes.I know this is going to cause a fight with me and my boyfriend but..?
well you love him right? well you were worried and thats all u have to tell him
say sorrrrrryyyyyyyy....it was ur fault after all !
SIMPLE!!!!!!! just apologize.....tell him you were wrong and you won't do it again, only if it an emergency. obviously the calls to and from the office is a big problem for the company so just don't do it...wait for him to call you! or send texts to his cell phone.
Tell him you miss him. But the real question is that if you KNOW it gets him in trouble and you KNOW he's not sure when he will get off, why do you ask? Is he allowed to get text messages?
Well, he shouldn't have cursed at you.


I would just let him know that it upset you that he didn't do what he said he would.


He is in the wrong here.


When he gets home tell him you're sorry for getting him in trouble, but he hurt your feelings.
Well, I know you feel like you've been waiting around on him all day. Which is no fun. I've been in the same situation as you. But you also know NOT to call him at work.





It wasn't cool of him to call you back and talk to you that way-- but I'm sure it's because he got in trouble for you calling his workplace just to find out when he would be home. Especially since it was a busy day.





If I were you, I would just apologize for calling. Don't waste any time arguing about the situation because theres really nothing to argue about. He couldn't help the fact that worked called him in and it was very busy. It sucks waiting around for people, but I mean, he was at work. He has responsibilities there. It would be different if he was wasting time somewhere and ignoring you. Just let him know that you were sorry if you caused any trouble by calling...you just missed him and wanted to see him.





Maybe since he's been working all day and you've been chillin at home, you could have a little surprise for him when he gets off work? That way it'll make it harder for him to stay mad. Haha...cook him dinner or something like that. Buy him his fave candy or something he really enjoys. Like I said, there's no sense in arguing over it. Might as well kiss and make up.
oh boy. uh try to calm him down. procostinate on this subject and keep him talking on other things. by the time your sleeping he would have probably forgotten. hopefully.
eh just let it go, you know, just have dinner ready and avoid the subject, doesn't seem worth fighting over
wow ur a real bug a boo it sounds like your a very insecure person like your man is cheating if you dont know where he is and what he is doing and when he is doing it. not saying that u couldnt b worried about him.sad to say men hate that well at least you realize that u calling was a bad idea but if u 2 live 2gether then imost likely he is tired and would wanna rest or could b hungry so try to cook 4 him his favorite food dnt apologize yet wait for the right time run him a hot bath just let him relax when he get home just cater to him and let him know that u was just worried even though u thought he was gettin busy wit some hot chick. This is if he doesnt get fired cuz of u....
ok 1. unless you want thim to get fired do not call him at work anymore got it 2. do not call him at work unless its a terrable emergancy ok? 3.when he does get home tell him how stupid you were and you will never ever call him at work again. and take him in the bedroom and make it up to him. and 4. don't call him at work anymore
honey it's sooooo easy:


-large smile.


-warm kiss.


-nice dress.


-romantic dinner.


-lovely candles.


-and u know what next...................
lock the door XD
for ehrn he gets home have a nice dinner waiting for you. If he dont bring up you calling then you dont either. and if he does apologize. if you knew he would get in trouble why did you do it? it wouldn't kill you to wait and if you are daring you can also be wearing something nice for when he gets home and smell good. In the future dont call him for a silly reason like when are you getting off because i dont want to be waiting . Just think about how he will react or what will happen if you do call.
When he comes home be your normal self and IF he brings it up just apologize. If he goes on about it then let him and tell him you understand and that you were wrong.





If you want to minimize things as much as possible then this is what you should do.
the best thing you can do is never call his work again and wait for him too call you sometime during the day and goo about your normal routine during the day if he wants too get a hold of you he will (cellphone) or somehow. but for now i would maybe make him a nice dinner lower the lights put candles on some nice music. sense he said hes had a hard day at work have him relax, take a shower, or jacuzzi if you have one,take out the massage oil and lotions and treat your man too a good night of relaxation, but be prepared it might get him in the mood. best of luck and dont forget too appologize at the right moment though