Ladies i need your help?

so heres my story... there is this girl that i have known for about 2 years, her name is laila and my g/f's name is michele.





we have all been friends for about 2 years





laila has been w/ her boyfriend for 2 years and ive been with michele for 2 nd 1/2... lailaand her boyfriend fight constantly and she always says she hates him, me and michele fight about once every week... me and laila get along great %100 of the time. i told laila how i feel about her and she said she has feelings for me to but will never act on them because she is friends with michele...





my question is... would you do the same thing? if you liked someone? i just feel that i dont think my girlfriend should stop us from being together because if laila wont give me a chance to be with her, how will she know what could have been?





do you think i'm being selfish or do i have a good point?Ladies i need your help?
i don't really think ur being selfish


i do think that she totally would b missing out on wut could b a great oppertunity, tho.


i also don't think that it's fair that she won't give u a chance just cuz of ur gf %26amp; her being friends, and just out of curiousity, if laila hates her bf, why the bleedin hell is she still w/ him? ask her that.


so maybe then it just comes down 2 the question of whether or not u really want 2 give up wut u have w/ ur gf rite now for something that mite not get very far if laila is still if-y about it


just talk it all out w/ her, cuz outher wise, it's going 2 keep being confusing and i kno that that's gonna lead to hurting, cuz that's wut i'd b doing.


just tell her that u really need her 2 help u get some things straightend out and try 2 convince her the best u possibally can. if it's still a no-go, then just try to accept it %26amp; forget about it best u can. cuz who knows, a couple yrs, months maybe, down the road, luck, fate wutever just mite shine upon u %26amp; her ;) (good things come 2 those who wait, apparently. even if it means for a while, or it's not even wut u expected, but even better)


GOOD LUCK!, i hope i helped at all (if that wuzn't too confusing) ;)Ladies i need your help?
First, if you don't love michele, talk to her and leave her friendly and peacefully. It is not because of there is someone, laila. You have settled that first.





Secondly, you can date laila becasue both of you like each other.





Make things clear.