Does my boyfriend think im dumb? or am i just dumb?

my boyfriend said he went out of town with his family like 5 or something days ago but i went to golden coral last night and i saw his parents there. but i made sure they didnt see me, so i could ask my boyfriend, hows the trip going? and today i asked him and he said its fun our hotel is so ';dope.'; i was like ohhh really? how your parents doing? are they getting along? (his parents fight alot) he said yes, they are getting better, there not fighting because they want to just enjoy the trip.





and at that point i was thinking hes either physco, or cheating and he knows it!? i know they were his parents because i mean i know what they look like, lol. but i dont get it.. when hes atually here hes always calling non stop, always coming over, always buying me stuff, taking me out to eat and everything, we're pretty much together 24/7 its been like that since the day we went out weve been going out for 8 months, so am i missing something here?Does my boyfriend think im dumb? or am i just dumb?
You're not dumb. You're hot.





Call him out on it.Does my boyfriend think im dumb? or am i just dumb?
Your boyfriend definately thinks your dumb!!!





He is actually taking you for a fool, just confront him and ask him what the hell is going on......you have proof that he's been lying to you!!!





Also ask him how he feels about your relationship, maybe he needs a break or something......





But the best advice I can give you is for you to communicate with him, theres no point in making assumptions!!
he most likely lying to you hes hiding something or someone you should call him today and ask what he and his parents were doing (at the time you seen them) and if he says oh we were spending time together which you would know was a lie ask him if that were so why you seen them and why he is lying to you.
You're not dumb! Life can be confusing that's all.





Anyway, i think he loves you too much and he's overdoing it. Not all guys do what he did for you. As long as it doesn't hurt u, u are fine. If it's still getting on you're case talk to him about it, instead of talking behind his back.





GOOD LUCK!
Honestly from the way you described your boyfriend being all sweet and nice, you have nothing to worry about. Good job for having that good intution though. When he comes home I would tell him that you saw his parents at the golden coral that night. See what he says. Good luck!
He's lying to you...who cares what his reason is. You should break up with him... don't even give him time to think up an excuse!
he is a lyer and possibly cheating. its right in your face.
ur dumb!!
He is cheating


Everything he does for you is because of the guilt he feels


Do you have a camera phone? If so you should have took a picture of the parents and sent it to him and asked him ';so if your parents are here who are you there with?';


Good luck girl, no matter how much time you spend with a guy they always have time and a way to cheat. It is just a matter of time before they get caught.
mabey he is on a trip, but with some friends instead of his parents and thought he didnt want to tell u because he didnt want u to worry. or on the other hand, he just needed some time away. or he is cheating and doesnt want to hurt ur feelings. when he gets back, ask him how it went, then tell him that u saw his parents and see if he tells the truth
your not dumb you are hot as h*ll
Looks like he's taking a break whereever he is. do a drive by (no shooting) his parents house when you think they should be at home, just to make sure. Take pictures. Show them to him when he gets ';back';.
call him out on it
Hi There, No I don't think your boyfriend thinks you are dumb. You said he is with you 24/7. Don't you think you both need some space. Try that show him you are busy, reduce time frame that you spend with him and then see what happens.


I believe he needed some space ';boys time'; if you trust him then its okay to have ';boys time';. He said his parents are okay. He is giving you a comfort zone. He don't want you to worry simply because fighting is maybe there daily routine. he is used to this situation. A-give him some space B- talk to him but i am sure he will lie to you so i believe try A


I hope my words don't hurt you.


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You're not dumb, you found out he's lying. I would say surprise him, tell him you know and see what he has to say... If he takes a while to answer, know that he's making up another lie! I think that maybe he had something else planned and didn't want to be disturbed the little bast...!
IT SAOUNDS LIKE HE MITE BE CHEATING ON YOU....IF U SAW HIS PARENTS...ND HE SED THT THEY R WIV HIM HES HIDING SOMETHING FROM YOU ASK WT IT IS?
the kid is obviously trying to play you and he doesnt know that you saw his parents so he thinks that he is in the clear. hes obviously doing something that he doesnt want you to know about and even if it isnt cheating he might as well be because he is lying to your face and isnt having any remorse about it. the reason that he could be all over you when hes home is so that you get wrapped up in him and dont leave him so he knows youll always be there., to tell you the truth you need to get rid of this guy because if he cant even be honest with you now what makes you think hes going to do it later??? and thats from a guys point of view
Obviously you're not THAT dumb. You figured out he's lieing to you. It's one of three things: A) he's not into you anymore. B) he's cheating on you or C) he needs time away from you and feels if he told you it would damage your relationship. And yes, he thinks you're stupid.
How about you dump his *** and start goin out with me :)
You're only dumb if you let him think he got away with it. I would find it very amusing to be at his house visiting with his parents when he got home. Who else here would love to be a fly on the wall to hear all the backpedaling that would go on in THAT conversation?





P.S. I'd dump him yesterday. You're obviously hot or he wouldn't behave that way when he's home, but he is obviously not mature enough to be good boyfriend material.
You are missing the fact that if he's not cheating on you, he's lying to you because you just saw his parents.





I would have called him on it. Hey sweetie, guess what? You're parents are sitting right across from me at Golden Coral, do you want to speak with them? Now do you want to explain to me why you just got caught in your lie?