My boyfriend and i have been going out for 8 months so far.(yay) But i have an issue with his Ex-girlfriend. Him and his ex went out for 2 years (maybe idk im not very sure but somewhere around there.) then he broke up with her. In the beginning of when we were going out he told me that he couldnt stand her she acted like a b, she ugly, she had a rude attitude and that he didnt even wanna talk to her. And he had absoultely nooo feelings for her whatsoever. Of course i believed him until i went on his facebook account and saw some stuff. Like she asked if he thought she was ugly he said no and like they talked about some STUFF like some stuff stuff. And i was like wth? This is not what you told me. And it actually look like he WANTED to talk to her. I was upset of course and i told him and he explained everything to me. AND AGAIN i believed him. After that they got in this huge fight and stopped talking. He took off his facebook account and everything. Now this month, i got facebook and i told him to one too. He got his old account. He added that exgirlfriend again. I went on his account and i read his messages and its like the same thing over again. I'm beginning to think that he still has feelings for this girl.
Does he in your opinion?
Also, this girl lives in CANDA and we live in the USA. So its not like he sees her everyday you know. I will admit that i am extremely Threatened by this girl. I mean this guy means A LOT to me and i dont want to lose him. But im afraid this girl could totally get in the way. And i've never been threatened by someone before so i dont know how to act.
Please Help.Boyfriend issueeeeeeee?
urgh..be radically honest with one another. trust is a very important element in a relationship and considered a very fundamental foundation of it. his words are not consistent. they re contradictory to his actions. doubt and threat are in your mind because he does not assure you anything about him and his relationship to his ex. once and for all..the two of you must have a clear distinction of the past and present. if he does not make the move to make clear of it, have the initiative to do so..the consequences may hurt you but in time the results will be rewarding and eventually the truth will be revealed and you will be free of doubts and threat.
Wednesday, August 18, 2010
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