I need your opinion PLEASE! helppp meeee?

alright, so i've been seeing a guy named mike for 2 years on and off. i met him right out of a 3 year relationship and i was not looking for a boyfriend so we started out as friends. well eventually mike wanted to be with me but i wasn't ready because i didn't know what i wanted. we got in some big fights and went abut 5 months without talking and then we started to talk and we were a little more than friends because we would have sex occasionally, but once again we got in some more fights and we stopped talking for about a month. most of our fights were because he'd try to hang out with me and i'd make up excuses and ditch him because i wasn't sure what i wanted, he didn't know that was the reason but he;d be mad i ditched him. well now that we've been talking for a good 9 months we've gotten more serious than ever and we have sex and are friends but i feel we are a little more than friends. we have sex all the time, i sleep at his place on some weekends, he cuddles with me, calls me at least once a day, we go to parties or in public and people assume we're dating, his friends consider us dating. so needless to say i've fallen pretty hard for him and now i know he's what i want but he insists he only likes me as a friend now. this doesn't make sense to me since we are closer than ever and go out and do things and i never ditch him or anything like that anymore. i talked to his roommate (whom is his best friend) and he seems to think that mike likes me more than he will admit because he's a guy and wont admit it. i think maybe mike is afraid of being hurt or something because his actions scream that he wants to be with me but then hell tell me he considers us just friends. i have always been there for mike, even when we didn't talk he knew he could call me if he ever needed anything, i know i have ditched him but whenever he's been in a bad situation or had a problem he needed to talk about i have been there whether its 3 am or 3 pm. he knows he can count on me now and things have been great. When i bring up to him that he acts like he wants to be with me he gets angry and insists he just considers me his friend. his roommate says he notices how mike will hang on me in public and act like i'm his girlfriend and he knows how much time we spend together. i just don't know what to do, mike knows i like him a lot more than just friends but it seems like were just ignoring the fact we like each other more and just avoiding it. and i don't bring it up anymore because he gets so angry and then insists were just friends and if i'm getting too attached we can stop having sex. he will also say he will stop sending mixed signals but then nothing changes and we keep growing closer. his roommate says just give him time to admit things and just go with the flow. thats what ive been doing but i just want some opinions, do you think mike really only considers us friends or is there more that he's maybe afraid to say. i feel maybe he's afraid of being hurt by me or maybe he's afraid if we are officially together things will get sour.


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thanks for reading, i'm sorry it was so long!!!!I need your opinion PLEASE! helppp meeee?
Its because you have sex with him. So your an easy F. You didn`t even consider him anything more than a friend and you were having sex with him.


He hangs on to you in public because he wants everyone to know you belong to him. He doesn`t respect you and probably never will. Your good for a weekend F and thats about it but his doesn`t want to lose that F.





End this relationship and start over as a virgin.


Stop wasting your time with a guy that doesn`t really love you.





You are Gods gift to the world. You were created with a beauty that no man can resist. Your nakedness is a wonder to behold by them. You are the Jewel in the crown.. You are beautiful. Inside you is the wonderful gift of life. You deserve only the best.





You should be honored and held up, supported, and protected by a man that will get down on his knees and pleads for you to take him as your ';husband';, begs you to be his forever. He will, forsaking all others, defend you and your children to his dieing breath. That鈥檚 a real man.


Let this be your standard..


Go find that guy and you will be happy for the rest of your life. He is waiting for you but can`t find you while you give yourself away to selfish little boys to whom you are just another sex toy.





Find real love, run to it.





Glad you askedI need your opinion PLEASE! helppp meeee?
wow i definitely do not want to read all that.