Restraining order against bfs ex...is it possible?

Ok, so here's the deal.





My bf's ex is blaming me for someone hacking into her hotmail AND facebook, deleting her account and then somehow getting into her dads email. They obviously have no proof that it was me( i didn't do it) but called and said they had a few other people in mind that may be responsible. So I think, how many people has this girl pissed off? She gets her mother to message my bf on his facebook to call him and when he does she proceeds to say how I have done this and that. So my boyfriend said, what proof do you have. They have none, just the fact that I hate his ex. Reasoning ( she slept at our house one night when I had to work early so i slept at my parents. Long story short. I came home, she was sleeping on our couch in my pj pants, w/ my pillow and blanket, don't know why I didnt beat her, but I left her be. Her mom lives 10 minutes down the road and she claimed she was too drunk to walk home. Then told me that her and my bf were best friend and nothing would change that. She has done some other things that crossed the line as well but we wont get into that)








so, my bf is telling her mom I dont have the resources to do what I'm being blamed for and she told him they just think it's me, but keep heckling us for the past TWO YEARS!!!!!! Give it up, and stop getting your mom to fight your battles.





Now the issue is, they call my boyfriend to try and resolve this. not me...which makes no sense if I'm the one ';doing it';. I figure they only want to break us up because she is probably single right now. Since she hasn't contacted me, can I still file for a restraining order or not because we havent spoken directly.





Any help wold be appreciated, it's getting to the point where I almost want to call it off with my bf because it causes us to fight and him to have trust issues (which I understand) but it almost isn't worth it anymore.





Has anyone encountered an ex that was so persistent and crazy too?Restraining order against bfs ex...is it possible?
All exs are the persistent and crazy until they find someone for themselves. They can't stand to see the last person they were ';in love'; with be with someone else. Most people just like the comfort of the safety net that thier ex will always be there.





If I were you I would have a chat with my boyfriend and find out why he talks to them so much. They're called ex's for a reason. You're not supposed to still be involved. It is almost impossible for two people who use to be in a romantic relationship to be just friends. The only way it is possible is for them to have no contact for about 2 or 3 years (possibly more, possibly less) so that they are over whatever feelings they had for eachother.





I am sure if you go to the police and you let them know that you are afraid and you are tired of being harrassed and you want them to leave you alone that the police will let you place a restraining order on them. First I would talk to your boyfriend and tell him that enough is enough and that he needs to cut them loose and move on.