Monday, August 16, 2010

GUYS AND GIRLS: HELP! whats wrong with my boyfriend?!?!?!?!?

i dont know whats going on with my boyfriend. like im not even kidding i feel so distant from him. heres what he does and doesnt do:





1. he doesnt call (stopped a long time ago)


2. hardly texts (when i do txt him, its always a one word answer or so and doesnt raise anything interesting)


3. doesnt open up to me (if i dont see him for a few days he wont tell me what he was up to during that time or that he missed me)


4. doesnt tell me he misses me or doesnt invite me to his house (he used to but ever since i told him that my parents dont like me going over, he stopped, and he NEVER told me he misses me)


5. doesnt try and make things better between us when we fight ( we recently fought and he doesnt show any effort in showing me that he cares, doesnt ask me if im ok, or doesnt appopogize.)


6. another thing: (hypathetically speaking): if i got into an accident, he wouldnt even bother calling or texting mwe to see if im ok. hell just be like, omg. thats it. i honestly feel like hes doing that to me.


and yeah i did recently get into an accident and he didnt even bother asking or cheering me up.


when we USED to hang out all the time, as soon as i met up with him by his house, he wouldnt come up to me and hug or kiss me. he would walk away and expect me to walk after him. wtf?????


i feel like this isnt a real true relationship and he is not commiting himself to in, AT ALL. u usually expect your boyfriend to comfort you, call you up, hang out, take you out on a date (never did take me out), remind you how long you guys have been dating for and even make time for you when its less convenient for him.


its weird cause one of my guyfriends, who i had a crush on, would always text me during work, at night for like 2 hours, during school, ask me if i was ok, tell me he misses me, ect. my current bf never really behaved like that towards me and its so obvious by comparing my current boyfriend to my guyfriend.....when i look back at his past relationships ( i use to always read his faceook profile) he would write stuff like, i love my ******* baby, or im loving her more, post pics of him and her.... i dont have a facebook, but he doesnt even bother to put a pic of us or EVEN CHANGE HIS RELATIONSHIP STATUS TO ';IN A RELATIONSHIP.';





WHYWHYWHY IS HE ACTING LIKE THIS? i know the answer is so obvious, but at this point i wanna see what you guys think and i really need some reasonable advise. plzplz thanxsooo much!!!








IS THIS NORMAL AT ALL????


10 POINTS FOR BEST ANSWER! SRY I WROTE SO MUCH I WAS THINKING AS I WROTE ALL THIS LOL.GUYS AND GIRLS: HELP! whats wrong with my boyfriend?!?!?!?!?
That's really, really long! But that sure isn't normal... either he is super shy, or he wants to break up and doesn't know how to hurt your feelings... I'm sorry. I think you should confront him about this to get the true reason why he is acting like this. If the outcome turns out to be bad (like wanting to break up bad) then you should go for another guy :). There's always more fish in the sea!GUYS AND GIRLS: HELP! whats wrong with my boyfriend?!?!?!?!?
Well sweetie what i would do is leave him alone let him feel what your going through, pretend your not caring about whats going on.If he still continues to do what hes doing, the best thing to do is break up.I guess if doesnt even talk to you.I say go for your guyfriend..flirt with him and if your current bf doesnt say anything then it means you guy have already broken up without anyone actually doing it.

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