MEN : is it a big step for you too ... ?

Settle down with your woman ? My boyfriend is 21, and I'm 18. He once told me that if he got me pregnant, he wouldn't want to get an abortion because he feels that if he made a life, he's not going to be the one to end it, which i feel the same, he has a good job, he's in the union and everything, but i'm still in school, with a job, but not good enough. He knows how big of a deal that is. He said he's never felt this way about anyone before, and he never wants to leave me, which i personally think is great, don't get me wrong. so guys, could you help me figure something out, do guys ever have at least the slightest bit of a second thought ? or if you have the girl of your dreams could nothing or nobody stop you from wanting her ?


- also, when you fight with your lady, what exactly goes through your mind about her ? is it good thoughts or bad thoughts,


- we don't ALWAYS fight either, just every once in a while we will come to a disagreement is all.MEN : is it a big step for you too ... ?
To answer your questions first then give you a little more advice after that. Yes we have second thoughts but thats only human, that doesn't mean that anything is wrong with you or your situation of wanting to get married. It just means that, we as humans have too: How I like to say. ';Marinate on it for a little while!'; We all have big decisions to make in our lives and marriage is one of the biggest decisions that we can make and its not always an easy one. To answer your other question. We all have disagreements, no one is perfect and we are not going to see eye to eye all the time. We have good and bad thoughts but when its all said and done most of the time the good thoughts overcome the bad and so we make up. Don't always try to figure out everything in life. It will drive you crazy if you let it. Just accept things as they are and you will have a more stable peace of mind. All in all it sounds like you two have a great relationship together. Hold onto that and keep it real, be honest with each other, show your true feelings toward each other, treat each other with respect, keep doing what has been working for both of you in your relationship. ';Don't cheat'; that will end a relationship forever because most people can not get over it, no matter how hard they try. You two are still young and I know you probably dont want to hear it and you have probably heard it from other people also. Don't rush into getting married! You two have your whole lives ahead of you and alot of decisions to make throughout your lives together. If you two are really in love with each other then nothing is going to change that. Give him time to make his decisions in life and support him whatever the outcome and he should support you in your decisions and you two will have a happier life together in the long run.


I hope that this helps you and your boyfriend in both of your decisions in life.MEN : is it a big step for you too ... ?
Look at the nature to understand the cock and the hen .It is the credit of the cock to have as many number of hen along with and he will render protection and food to all and maintain law and order .Like wise Men will protect his women and maintain her all along in life and Love continued in the way for their social life .No need of a fighting after the formation of living together for enjoyment and happiness .Everybody must manage their life in principle and continue peacefully .