Monday, August 16, 2010

Boyfriend Advice Needed Badly! Crying At This Moment!!?

Okay so my boyfriend and I have known each other for about 3 years and we have been dating for 1 year and 5 months. We do fight a lot, and he can be a jerk (like most guys) and I can be a bitc* (like most women). We have broken up a few times and he has given me a lot of chances. My family hates the way I act and how I am mean all the time. My mom thinks I'm bipolar and I want to go get checked because I am pushing away lots of people I love and care for. My boyfriend has given me so many chances and were so in love and he broke up with me because he said that he has put up with a lot and everything and he has said that a lot but he means it this time. (Also my mom even warns me saying don't push your boyfriend away, your mean to him. You guys can be mean to each other, I see you guys are truly in love. Remember love doesn't always stop someone from breaking up with you...)Its so sad this has happened before and I managed to get him back because I told him it wouldn't happen again but it did and I don't know what to do to get him back. By the way the first time we had sex we got herpes from each other and we were shocked and we were both virgins and he lives about 45 minutes away from me! Please help me ! I want him back!Boyfriend Advice Needed Badly! Crying At This Moment!!?
You're caught up in an unhealthy cycle. Do you know what a healthy relationship looks like? I've been married 10 years and we don't ';break up'; or yell at each other. We aren't mean... (that often). Maybe you should seek counseling and ask about a possible bi polar condition. That is treatable. It sounds like you have some problems with other relationships too. You should look into it. Having good friends and a healthy relationship opened you up to good things. You will have room in your life for service and creativity. You really should look into some treatment. It's a step toward happiness. You don't seem happy at all. And getting your boyfriend back wont fix anything. It's only a symptom of the problem. Why don't you address the problem?Boyfriend Advice Needed Badly! Crying At This Moment!!?
First of all HE wasn't giving YOU chances. You were just trying to keep the relationship. Never blame yourself for a relationship that doesn't work. Love yourself and value yourself. You are not a bitc*, but a wonderful and unique human being that deserves respect and love. Relax a little bit, stop judging yourself and enjoy life.
you can't get herpes unless someone already has it. if you didn't have sex with anyone else, that means he did. and that means he wasn't a virgin.
convince him lady
Go to sleep that should stop the crying
To hide the key to your heart is the risk forgetting where you placed it. Mistakes are common, the important thing is to use them to our advantage and learn from these mistakes, not get shut down by them. Giving your heart to someone means knowing the chances the person will run away with it. Loving someone or something always has a reason, if you forget your reason you forget why you are in love. What did you two feel, see, think, and believe in each other when you two first fell in love. Remember it and start over.





Good Luck
Get therapy for yourself. See a doctor if you think you are bipolar. This could reassure your bf. But first be sure to put some time in yourself and try to understand your behavior to your boyfriend. Try therapy first and then tell your boyfriend about it. if its working then maybe he'll come back.. understand that this has been hard for him and you could to put more effort in your relationship. Try to understand when you feel triggered with people, what different could you do if you felt like you were going to react in a negative way. If you are back with your bf. ask him if he's willing to do therapy with you so you could improve your relationship.
How do you get herpes from each other, do your parents have it. Any way you create what you fear. You fear is he will leave you so you push him away. Your insecurity is the problem. I want to say something not to be so rude but you have herpes its not like you can wash it off. So you really need to think about meeting some one and telling them about your herpes. Most people that don't have it are not willing to get it. You had better get a grip on you attitude because who in their right mind would risk getting herpes with a total *****. Also I think someone is not being honest about the virgin story.
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