Is it right to be someone your not to keep your man ?

theres this girl how is 17 and im 18 i have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half we broke up cause we couldnt stop fighting and that night he went and tryed to hang with her and all i did was hang with my girl friend bff lol and now its really ahrd to get over it and i dont know how to heal my broken heart but i have been dealing but i talked to the girl and i saw that she looks like and i think that she is really pretty i showed my friends and my brother and they say dont worry im better but what if itsnot all about looks and if pther things i dont know what to do i tryed loseing some pounds and doing my hair different anything but i dont nkow what to do please hlep








shes 17 and about 5,8 and a half and long brown hair and is about 190 in wegh and brown eyes and has a butt and like a c boobs





im 5,3 and like 200 or 180 i dont really know and i have brown hair with blounde highlights and green and blue eyes like i cat there change and no butt and i have size dd boobs ? what do i do i need helpIs it right to be someone your not to keep your man ?
In my book no. I hate plastic people especially plastic girls which is someone who puts on tons of makeup or will lie just to get or keep a guy. They actually turn my stomach. When I was in college I loved blue/purple eye shadow and I saw this new girl walk into the band room where I was band manager. She had blue/purple eye shadow and she looked at me out of the corner of her eye and blinked (not winked). My heart fell into my feet and I was hers from that point on. That was 24 years ago and today she's my wife.





You can't be any more than being yourself. If a guy wants more than you when you're being yourself then you're too good for him. Your detentions really make little difference in the long run, you personality and sense of humor will supersede your looks.





Hope this helps.Is it right to be someone your not to keep your man ?
never be somebody your not.


sounds like you need to find somebody to mend your heart.


i say u just need to move on, i know a 11/2 yrs. is a long time, but


don't ever change yourself, your boyfriend should accept you for who you are. who you are inside is what really matters.
Get over it.
Why would you want to be with someone who doesn't completely love you for you?





There's many men out there who love women of all shapes and sizes, you'll learn your weight and bra size is great to begin with, but personality is what holds on to a man (a REAL man).





You're very young and have plenty of years in the dating scene ahead of you don't get so hung up on one guy... if you keep hanging on when you finally give him up all you're going to remember is the heartbreak and jealousy. Remember the good times and move on.