Monday, August 16, 2010

Major boyfriend troubles...stressing me out..please help ?

Ok, so I am 15 and my boyfriend is 17 and goes to a different school. We have been together for 2 months now. When we first met we had so much fun and were super playful and flirty and liked eachother and had fun in everything we did. After a few months of hanging out, he asked me out. I said yeah to him because i liked him a lot, and we already stayed up late hours of the night talking to eachother, and hung out with eachother 24/7. Everything was awsome at first, but then he went to get a job at a resteraunt where some people from my school work. He works with this girl I know who used to kinda be a friend of mine, and is good friends with some of my friends. He made really good friends with her and they call eachother and text eachother and walk home together since they are neighbors, and they became good friends. They eventually started hanging out like all the time. I have to admit, at first I was a bit jealous. but I knew he loved me because we always had so much fun together and he would buy me stuff and call me every night. Well, at a certain point my friends convinced me he was into her, saying he spends more time with her and talks to her more than me, and that they have little joke pet names for eachother and they are best friends. (by the way she has a bf who she has been with for 8 months) me and him stopped hanging out as much, and when we do we are really bored, and all we do lately is seem to fight or sit around.. or sexual things cuz there is nothing else to do.. now i havent seem him much lately, and he keeps making plans with her, or with me and her. he got his licnece yesterday, and the first person he took out driving was her. he said its because i live so far away from him.. and he was just going up to the store after work with her.. i feel like i am a bore to him now, and he seems to be annoyed to talk to me. i eventually explained to her how i felt but she said to me that she doesnt see him that way at all, and he is like a brother, and she has more friends that are guys just because she likes hanging with guys better, she doesnt mean anything at all and i have nothing to worry about. he seems to keep blowing me off. i dunno if i should just trust them both because me and him have had non stop fights about my jealousy over this, and i am trying to hide it, but it sucks when i barely get to see him and i keep hearing about them hanging out. plus i saw on her myspace status it said ';lets set the record straight, my 2 best friends are guys, THAT DOES NOT MEAN WE ARE INTERESTED IN EACH OTHER,'; and then later it said ';Some things we never forget'; neither of them have been texting me back and its just like utgh...i know i am being over obsessed..but i am sitting here alone on a friday night for the 3rd week in a row (me and him usually hang every friday) and i feel like maybe because shes more fun and outgoing then me that he likes spending time with her? please dont tell me anything negative..i have heard it all already..i dont wanna break up with him, and i have already talked to them multiple times. how can i be a funner more outgoing girlfriend? how can i stop being so jealous? do u think i have been seeming clingy and over protective? what are some fun things that me and him can do together and talk about?





THANKS FOR YOUR HELP


XXOOXOMajor boyfriend troubles...stressing me out..please help ?
you should talk to him about, or tell the other chick to back off

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