How can i fix this? i don't want to lose my boyfriend?

Well it's like this. I am dating this guy we have been dating for almost a year, now i understand that hasn't been that long but we've been together every day and every night but once since the day we went on our first date. That's alot of time spent together. Anyways, i've noticed we've been fighting alot and it's just stupid stuff. I personaly think it is because we are living with his parents... we are renting the basment sweet it just so happens it was cheaper having them live in the upstairs then anyone else living up there, anyway that isn't the point. So basically we are in a house full of 7 people and it is not a very big house!! I think we argue because we are never alone.. and i mean like he is never home alone and i am never home alone, and when we are home alone together we still aren't with just us.. it is driving me crazy!! He says it's because our house is haunted and it's the negative spiritual beings bringing the household down, which i understand i think our house is haunted aswell but i think it is beyond that. As i was saying. Our relationship is something like this... I may be a total pushover but i will do ANYTHING he asks of me. I do (here is a list)


Laundry


dishes


cook meals


go to work


clean the cat litter


feed the cats


grocery shop


keep track of expenses


shut up when he is annoyed of sounds


give him massages when he asks


stopped hanging out with people he didn't like me being with


stopped talking to people he didn't like me talking to


stopped listening to the music i like when i'm around him (which is all the time)


Let him go jam (he is in a band and they jam late nights)


basically everything he needs i do for him.. i love him to death and i want more then anything for him to be happy!! Sometimes i feel it doesnt' go both ways though. Like when we get into reaally bad fights he will say ';i don't love you'; ';i don't want to be with you anymore'; ';your a crazy *****'; ';shut the **** up, get the **** out of here'; BLAH BLAH BLAH. I don't understand who someone who apparently wants to marry you, can so easily look you in the eye and say they don't love you or they hate you.. it's super harsh!! Now he does alot for me. He helped support me when i wasn't working, he's got me roses which i've never had before, he bought me the cutest teddies, he loved me more then i could ever imagine. But he is soo crazy when he doesn't get his way or when he is mad. i don't know what to do everything i say is just WRONG and i can't seem to do anything right. Now i am not angel i get mad when he goes on the computer, mostly because i have a hard time letting go of my past.. like my ex boyfriend was a computer/vidoe game NERD and i mean non stop 24/7 gaming it up! i could have killed myself. And my current boyfriend is not like that at all he is far from it i just have a hard time seeing him on the computer when he really doesn't need to be on there, i mean i work all day come home at like 9 got to go to bed at 12 we don't see eachother that much and when i'm home he would rather sit online.. it's annoying. I get mad yea but he is also immature about he situations, i need to figure out a way for us to communicate better, and just work out of battles maturly and calmly, not yelling and wanting to kill eachother everytime, because eventually he will leave me and i will just not know what to do.. We love eachother and we want our relationship to be the best it can be, we want to get married and have a baby someday in the near future. any suggestions on how we can work on our things in a different matter because everything we have been trying doesn't seem to be working. Help??How can i fix this? i don't want to lose my boyfriend?
ok..first, don't ruin ur like and time..with a guy who is a jerk and contol freak....it won't even be worth it. And...theres was this movie that came out this past year, and it is called ';Fireproof';..u may have seen it, but if u haven't, u should...it is about a couple who has marraige problems. There is also a book named ';The Love Dare'; and it was used in the movie, to keep the couple together, and it worked...so i would recommend watching the mivie, and then doing the book. You can get the book online anywhere..but, when i looked, i could only find it on www.christianbook.com...and...i gave the link below..to get the book, which is only $8.00...so, i would highly recommend that, and if u dont want that, or it doesnt work, i would recommend telling him that u dont like all thats going on, and that u would like if he could just change a few things...tell him its not working....tell him what all u dont like...HOPE THIS HELPS!!!!!! JUST WATCH FIREPROOF, if u havent

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