How do I stop myself from pushing this one away?

I just got into a new relationship and my boyfriend is amazing. I am so scared I am gonna push him away I got hurt really bad by my first love which I know most of the time happens. Congrats to all of you that got to keep your first love.I had one other relationship since my first love he was a great guy but I ended up pushing him away. I have already started little fights with my current boyfriend. I don't want to lose this one but I don't know how to stop pushing men away. Any Ideas?How do I stop myself from pushing this one away?
Girl i wish i had the answer for you. maybe you need to tell him what you just told all of us and ask him to be patient. you never know he might understand where are coming from. i know i have been there i told my b/f basically what you just said and we are in love and getting married. he is patient with me and i am patient with him. And trust me i have started some fights over some bulls*** and he listens and answers and that is the end. Good Luck!! Trust me you will find the right when because if I did then I know you can!!How do I stop myself from pushing this one away?
You are only responsible for all this becoz you you don't know how to maintain a relationship.Why you are pushing away!Sorry if I was rude!
WHAT YOU NEED TO DO IS RELAX, AND LET IT HAPPEN


DONT RUSH ANYTHING TAKE IT SLOW, AND WHEN YOU


FEEL LIKE YOU WANT TO START LITTLE ARUGMENET WITH


HIM THINK ABOUT WHY YOU ARE SO INSECURE ABOUT YOU\SELF. THEN AND ONLY THEN WILL YOU FIND WHY


YOU ARE PUSHING THESE MEN AWAY.OTHER WISE YOU


WILL CONTINUE TO MAKE THE SAME MISTAKES OVER]AND]OVER AGAIN.
well .. maybe you are not ready 4 a relationship yet
Maybe when you feel like you're picking a fight, you should walk away for a few. You can also tell him what's up, and ask him to tell you if you're doing anything like that, since you may not be noticing all the ways you're doing it. So, enlist his help to tell you. You can try to think of all the things this new guy does to make you happy as much as you can, so when you're around him, you're not taking him for granted and wanting to push him away. I'd also try to think about the past and keep trying to get over it so you can go on without any of that sticking to you.
well hon, talk to him let him know what is up with you, or if you don't want to go that route get some counseling, just acknowledging you have a problem is the first step, now you need to do something about it, I'll pray for you all the best.
Why are you starting fights? Is it because its what you're used to?





Forget being the person you were before, and be the person you want to be.





If you want to keep this guy, keep your mind on the positive things. Stay happy. If he did something nice or that made you happy, tell him. If things are annoying you, then bring it up calmly in conversation instead of yelling at him or making bitchy comments, that way you can both work out a solution. Also if you have unresolved issues from your previous boyfriends, and you can't just get over them, talk about them with your new boyfriend. If he really likes you, then he will try to help you.
yes, its like your first love is right in there but guess what he isn't so if you pick fights guess you can be alone with thoughts of your first love.
I'm not sure anyone can stop being themselves but I have learned a few things. I notice there is a direct correlation between the amount of time spent talking and the amount of time spent regretting. This is especially true if you have the tendency to be bitchy.
hold one hand with the other
you have to sit down with him , tell him about wut happened i am sure he will support you and help you get through this, and try to take down ur wall , Brick by Brick , dont expect to tear the whole thing down in a flash, it takes time and trust, talk this over with ur boyfriend.
Firstly, relax. If you are worried about things, then you are going to ruin things. All you can do is be yourself and if you lose this one, then it wasn't meant to be.
tell him how you feel if he's worth anything he'll understand and not let you push him away
We ll be straight up with him tell him that i will make time with you that sometimes i always busy so he won t think that you pushing him away.