How do you stop paranoia of your partner cheating, when they probably really aren't?

My boyfriend have been together for awhile like 5 months and its been great. We've been spending lots of time together and sometimes i feel like he needs his space and so do I. But recently his ex girl has been calling and it really made me mad because my previously relationship i was cheated on so i kinda paranoid. My boyfriend gets mad at me cuz he tells me its nothing when she calls and he doesnt call her. He says he doesn't wanna be with her, he wants to be with me and he can't control if she keeps calling after he told her not to call so much. He says their friends and that it...but i honestly feel like she wants more than that. Recently we got in a fight about it and he told me that he needs his space,not that he wants to break up but we just need some time apart because we've been spending alot time together and at some point he wants us to miss each other. I wanna trust him but i just cant help thinking of my past and being cheated on by my ex. I think im paranoid because he asks for space around the same time this girl was calling. Am i'm paranoid for no reason...should i trust that he telling me the truth?How do you stop paranoia of your partner cheating, when they probably really aren't?
I really don't know how to stop the paranoia when the answer to this question start coming through I can't wait to see cause i have the same problem.How do you stop paranoia of your partner cheating, when they probably really aren't?
You should try not to be so jealous as it can destroy what you are trying to build.You have to have faith as all people are not alike in life.You may have many bumps in your live until you meet the right one.We all need space , and enjoy missing each other as that is what brings you closer sometimes.(Don't cling like a rubber band or it will break)Enjoy what you have and have fun
I think youre uncomforable in your relationship.Why i can't know?Maybe she called him just a friend and i think you don't wory about it.





Best Lucks.
ur not paranoid ur justifiably cautious.. but if he says nothings going on believe him.. ask him if he can take a break from talking to her rather than taking a break from u.also he can cut her calls and avoid answering them she will get the msg.
Just tell him that you were cheated on before and that's why you're really paranoid. Talk it out and be honest, maybe he'll understand more.
tell him to tell her to stop callin him if he wont tell her your self


he wouldnt like it if one of ur exs was calling you all the time
Everyone relationship is new and you cannot bring old issues and baggage into a relationship with a new person. It isn't fair. It causes trouble where there might not be any. Give him some time apart from you. If he wants to come back, I am sure he means it. Do not let this ex-gf have so much power. If he tells you it means nothing to him, you have to believe him and quit obscessing. Otherwise, you are literally driving him away. Lesson learned.
i know exactly how you feel because i have gone through a very similar experience


and with my present girlfriend who i have been dating for about 1 and half i didn't trust her at all when we first started dating


and she was a very flirtatious girl which made things a lot worse and we got into many arguments about it but as time went on i began thinking to myself i need to trust her and if she truly loves me she wont cheat on me and if she does so be it she wasn't worth my time anyways, and i knew it would have hurt really bad if she did cheat on me but i knew i already survived it once and it didn't kill me so i knew i could deal with it again


and Im still dating her and trust her with all my heart and i believe that brought us a lot closer


i hope my little story can help you a little good luck :)

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