If your spouse did this, what would you do - long?

I was at my brother's birthday like a few hours ago.


And, when I was walking around the room seeing if anybody needeed anything.


One of my brother's friends was of course drunk. And so I asked if he needed anything and his friend was obviously not thinking and said something along the lines of ';how about you';


My brother then said, ';dude, she's married'; and his friend said ';So';


My husband overheard him and quickly came by my side, held me really close to him, kissed me on the cheek infront of my brother's friend, whispered in my ear ';Lets go over there';, and then guided me to another area of the room.


And then when we were driving home, my husband turned down the radio and said ';So how's your boyfriend'; sarcastically. I told him to stop it. He just smiled,laughed and said ';Sorry, you know i love you, babe, i dont want you to get hurt by that F***in a**hole''; then he kissed my hand and held it the rest of the way.


My brother called me about an hour ago and said he was sorry for his friends rudeness.


He said that when my husband kissed me on the cheek, he kept his eyes on his friend and made a face, and he even described the face to me. He said it exactly like this'; Nessa, when he kissed you, he kept his eyes on George, like he was saying, THIS is mine and only mine, YOU dont touch this'; exactly like that.


I asked him why they dont get along, and it has to do with something about George lying about something, my husband never told me, all he ever said was ';George is a *bleep* liar!, I dont want you to be around him. you cant trust him, so dont get near him anymore'; (this was when we got home and I brought up why they dont get along)





My sister in law told me:


when two girls that are bestfriends fight (me + her = bestfriends), they call eachother a few days, weeks, (hours) later to appologize,


When two guys that were best friends fight, they never appologize. And if they do, there is always that thing where they cant trust them anymore.





IS that right?





Was he jealous?


Was he territorial?


what?


My husband and George have never gotten along since We were in high school





What should I do?If your spouse did this, what would you do - long?
I think your husband just wanted him to know that you are his, and only his.If your spouse did this, what would you do - long?
lol ur thinking too much..... u dont have to do nothing there is nothing to do just leave it like that. nothing happen for u to have to do something.





just go have fun with ur husband right now instead of being here worried about something that is not a problem.
Ok, is George your brother or the drunk guy at the party? Who is not getting along? Your husband and Your brother? Or Your husband and the drunk guy?
I think you're totally over reacting and your husbands behavior was fine. He handled himself very well. You on the other hand seem to like too much drama. Get over it.
just stay out of it your husband loves you and tell your brother not to invite you if his friend is coming that your husband does not like him and you were insulted by his remarks
I think your man was all of the above he does not want to share you and will not let any man think he can take what is his
The sarcastic comment on the way home. I don't care about how long you have been married a man will eventually make some stuoid comment. Well intended to brighten the situation, fish to see how you feel and all but it sometimes does not come out right.





Actually mature men do tend to apolgize in way.If is usually a more';fine'; I made my point so we can move on without major discussion. Your husband knows something about your brother's feind so there is some serious bad blood. He does not need to tell you all about it.... it just exists. Odds are your husband is pissed because a guy can spell crap a mile away.





To explain all of this would be demeaning for all. As an aside for your brother to call you was excellent.





I assume your husband has no need to be territorial. In my opinion your husband acted with complete class..... hands down. He made it very clear that you were to be treated properly. It is not that you are property but there are ways men communicate.





He probably wanted to give the guy a proper dunning. Him giving you a kiss and removing you from the area sent a very clear message to all. That he was really pissed and was sitting on the edge of taking it further. In man world if a man implies this and shows restraint (rather than mess up the party) that is usually enough.





Plus class and a sign of a gentleman. Let the other person look stupid. You just try to understand and somehow tell your husband that you really appreciate him. He will just understand what you are saying even just saying that. Don't over talk it.
Ur his and he wanted to make sure the dude knew it, he was jealous and that is a sign of being insicure but he loves u and was looking out for u, guess its up to u how u take it I say be flattered he cares about u so much and be thankful he is adult enough to handle it like he did, If I heard a dude say that to my woman id beat his a$$. And dudes dont tend to make up like femals when its a fight they usually dont forgive and start paling around again
OK, I'm missing something here.





A drunk lout was making as *** of himself at a party. Your husband stepped in to defuse the situation. He put you first.





Sounds like you're husband is a great guy and he adores and loves you.





Where is the issue?