Please help? boyfriend issues.. kinda long?

So basically my boyfriend and I have been together for over a year and were expecting a little boy in july. we've been doing really great and I thought we were really happy til just a couple days ago. Friday was my birthday and he called out of work sick to be with me all day, well out of nowhere he has to go to work because they asked him to come in to show him the ropes and write reports. which I found really odd since he called out. Well I had to pick my friend up from her job which is right by where he works so i called him to come say hi and he ignored my call and told me he could only text because his boss was right there. (which doesn't make sense because if his boss was there he wouldn't be able to text) Then he told me that he parked his car down the street at the mall. So i went to the mall because I wanted to write I love you on his car, and his car was not there. I searched everywhere. Well, once I'm going home I get a call from him phone and all I hear is music and females yelling my boyfriends name. So I go to his friends house which is where he always parties and his car was there. I finally got ahold of him and he said he was just getting off work and i was like how are you going to get home when your car is at your friends house. and he was lik what? and i was like im at your friends and your car is here, stop lieing. he then told me his friends moved his car and there coming to pick him up. which then his friend comes and gets his car and speeds off. so we argue and make up. and he admits to me that night about hecka stuff he lied about before but swears that he was really at work that night. Well over the next couple of days he's been really weird. Like I could tell something was wrong. I just don't know what. Last night when we were talking he told me he wanted to get a paternity test because he's not sure if our baby is his. And I'm like you told me you trusted me (I've never cheated on him, I'm just really hurt) why do you want one? and he said that I'm very suspicious. And we talked and I told him that I'm done giving him everything. I spend every dime I have on him. All my birthday money I spent on him. He wanted a pie, I went out and bought it for him and he never even gets me food. I told him I needed to start making me happy before I can make him happy. Then today i kept calling him trying to wake him up for school. and he didn't answer any of my calls. Finally I blocked my number and he answered. he told me he was going to take me out tonight for my birthday, that he has something planned. So we go out to dinner, then he asks me what do i want to do. and i was like i thought you had this planned? and he was like well we can do whatever. so we went to look at baby stuff then went to my house. I was bored so i was going threw his phone and he was texting this girl talking about how they should be friends again and she said do you think we can really just be friends? and i was like for real? you can text her but you couldn't answer my calls? and he didn't answer me. then he denied anything ever happened with them and he hasnt seen her since last year. Which is bullsh!t because my friends saw her at his house like two months ago and we talked about it. and i called him out on that and he was lik oh ya i forgot. And the fight escalated and he went out in the other room, i textd him and told him i couldn't fight like this anymore and he came in and was like whats that suppose to me and i said i cant take the fighting i want to stop. and he was like okay. and then he make a comment about how he doesn't want to fight over our son and he doesn't want to be limited to how many days he can see him. So I'm kind of wondering if he's just with me now because of our son. Which I told him if we break up, he can see his son whenever he wants. I really don't know what to do. If I wasn't pregnant I'd be lik HA bye. But now I have someone else to think about and I really don't know what to do. I don't want my baby to get caught in the middle. Please, any advice?Please help? boyfriend issues.. kinda long?
He admitted that he is a liar...what more proof do you need...dump him and keep your dignity and self worth...you can do better than a liar and a cheat and you know it...Please help? boyfriend issues.. kinda long?
it's simple, yet not so simple. time to let him go. he turns the table on you when you have him cornered. he's a liar and a cheat. you think your baby is gonna benefit from you staying with him? wrong.
You deserve better. He admitted to being a liar and you can do better than a cheat like him.


Put all your effort into your baby as that is no1 priority not a scum bag like him.


Good luck hun :)
You could ignore him for a couple days and he will start to wonder what is the matter or if your near family move in with them for a bit if your living together





then he would come to his senses and hopefully come looking for you





if he loves you as much as his says he dose he will wont you back
Im sorry thats horrible :(


Tell him that he needs to be completely honest with you about everything because you guys have a baby on the way and he needs to respect you more and take care of your needs! As s h oleeeeeee! Goodluck :)