Wow! Well first, you should definitely think about if you truly love your boyfriend. Personally, if you really loved him you wouldn't keep sneaking around with this other guy. But obviously there is something there with that other guy or else you wouldn't continually be sneaking around. Just weigh out your feelings for both guys. Sit down and talk to the guy you're sneaking around with and find out exactly what his feelings are. If he's in it just for sex..get rid of him...but if he truly like you then you have a lot of thinking to do as in who you like more. Which one treats you better or truly shows he cares? Which one is always there for you no matter what? My b/f and I have been dating for 2 1/2 years now so i am not just pulling this stuff out of my *** but you seriously just need to weigh out both sides of the situation. And make sure you sit down and talk to that other guy and find out exactly what his feelings are for you. You have definitely gotten your self into a sticky situation so please don't make a decision on impulse. Take you time to make the decision but don't go off having sex and stuff with this other guy and make your decision on that. See how he treats you when you don't have sex with him or give him any other pleasure. If either one of them care about you then they will love you no matter what they are getting and they'll just enjoy your company. Best Of Luck!Help, I Need Advice...Good Advice...None Of This, Oh Stop Seeing Him, Stay With Your Boyfriend Blah....?
First of all, you need to be true to yourself. You guys more than kissed and on more than one occasion. You should not be with a boyfriend if you are with someone else. You have to be fair to them and yourself. You have to make a decision. AT THE VERY LEAST, break up with the boyfriend while you are confused and making your decision. You would appreciate the same respect from him!
learn to type... and really, you may not think of it this way, but that is as serious an answer as i can give you here!
by the way, your boyfriend deserves way better! break up with him so he can find a girl that's actually worthy of his time and love!!
From the outside it sounds like the ';other guy'; only wants you here and there. Not
like your boyfriend, (all the time). What i mean is i am sure you and your boyfriend see eachother all the time. But the ';other guy'; is when its convinent for him or when your out without your bf. You need to find out if the ';other'; guy is serious! If he isnt you need to decide if you are going to contine to break your bf heart or dump the ';other'; guy and actually have a future with your bf.
Its really up to you on what you want to do. Asked him if he is really serious in having a relationship with you. if so, then you have to decided which one do you really want to be with. You have to remember that in all you decisions, there will be consequences. Good Luck!
Sounds to me that it is just that... a s** thing between the both of you. You are willing to put out even though you have a man, which makes it fun for the other guy. The whole thought of ';having'; what is technically taken excites a man and fills their ego. (most men think that because you are coming to him for sex that your man must not be doing his job/and that works both ways) If you think that there is more to this man than what you have experienced, talk to him and see where he stands with you, if it is nothing but for s**, than I think you should drop it and be with your boyfriend. My personal advice is to be honest with your boyfriend, cause a secret never remains a secret... eventually it will come out.
Well, ask yourself this question...do you think what you are doing is fair to your bf? Would you like it if he did the same to you? Who do you like more, this new guy or your bf? You have to pick one. We can't tell you which to chose as we cannot tell how you feel about either one? Don't string them both along. If you are unsure of where you stand with this new guy, ask him point blank? Does he feel that you are gf material or are you just another booty call?
It sounds to me like you need to ask this other guy what up. Find out what he wants, does he want a booty call or is he interested for real. If all he wants is a booty call, then you have to make a decision. Do you want to be with your boyfriend, do you love him? If the answer is yes then you need to drop the other guy. If you dont know then you need to seriously think about it. what if you got pregnate you would proably loose both guys and be raising a baby all by yourself. They would know who the daddy was till the kid was born.
But on the other hand i understand the thrill of your situation. Its kind of addictive. Go with what your heart tells you. Just remember if you truly like your boyfriend what your doing is not fair. But if you think you may like the other guy more maybe you need to drop the boyfriend and give him a try.
seriously, it's really hard to read and respond to questions spelled incorrectly / written in shorthand. Cheating is wrong. You aren't into your boyfriend, so let him move on, and just date this new guy
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