I'm new at this because I seriously do not know what to do or how to react on this situation. I found out that my boyfriend was mad at me about some issues hanging out with a friend he doesn't like or get along or doing things on our date that he didn't like. He ignore me and didn't tell me, I got frustrated at him for not opening up to me. This is the first time he's ever mad at me because he have been keeping it all to himself this time until he can no longer do it. All I just want to do is stop fighting because I'm tired of it, I just want to work things out but don't know how. What should I do? Should I give him some space? I don't want to let our relationship go because most people forget is that you need to fight to love and understand better. But I want to stop fighting and start over.
What would you do if your boyfriend is mad at you?
try writing how you feel down and either give that to him and then talk afterwards or just base your talk off of that. because it sounds like you two definitely need to talk. ask him to tell you exactly how he feels-- if he's hurt or betrayed and why. tell him you didn't mean to hurt him or make him mad. be open and honest with him because it sounds like you want your relationship to work but you're just kind of not sure where to start. being honest with your partner is definitely a good place to go from because if you're not honest, it will not work.
tell him how you're feeling and that you really don't want to fight. you want to be good with him because you know that's the way it's supposed to be.
i know it's hard to fight with the person you love but you're right in saying that it does help to love and understand the other person better and to get out any resentment that you may have. it's not good to just let it all build up inside like he's been doing. also ask him to tell you when something is bothering him before it's too late and it all just blows up so he doesn't talk to you or he yells at you or something stupid like that. tell him you would want to fix it, not make it worse. or something like that.
i've been in a situation similar to this and i know how it feels. but if you really take the time to talk and work it out and you don't let go or give up, i'm sure things will all work out the way things are supposed to. just don't lose hope and make sure you both understand each other the best you can.
good luck hun!What would you do if your boyfriend is mad at you?
He's trying to control you.
Isn't communicating with you.
Try to talk to him.
talk to him.tell him how you feel..
communication is the key to any relationship!!!
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