Would you breakup with your boyfriend for this?

Yesterday, We were watching Twilight in my basement together and I got a call from my friend Skylar, he said that him and this other kid Dan are going to fight each other so me and Lauren just say okay maybe some other time and rush to the school yard there going to fight at. When we get there nobodies fighting there just trying to talk about it. Lauren and I both have this ';cutting'; problem. I stopped for a very long time she still does it. Everybody like screaming at each other and all this **** going on and I have no idea why she did it but she pulled out a razor and cut her wrist. I grabbed the thing and threw it on the roof of the school. She flips out on me. Kicking and punching me and screaming. I told her fine I'll try and get it! We walk to the way we get up to the roof and I told her ';I hope you know, I probably can't get to the second floor, I just don't know how.'; She says ';Get it...';


I see her just walking away and I say where are you going? I'm gonna get it. She says ';Go away.'; By now nobody fought and everybody left. She had this pink notebook she wrote in about the two of us. She rips the pages out and throws them away. I got the message. I felt like a real asshole after since ';cutting'; is like a sickness and the blade is like the medicine, it's just when I don't have a blade, I'd use something else. Now my arm looks like red and white zebra and my pillows all wet. Why the **** would she do that?Would you breakup with your boyfriend for this?
Sounds like you both need therapy...get help.Would you breakup with your boyfriend for this?
Because she(and you)both have a disorder. You both should get help together. That way why you are getting help maybe your relationship can heal along with your wounds.
agree with first answerer.


if there is cutting involved...you have issues anyway.
most often this behaviour is part of a personality disorder. treatment with antidepressents and antipschoic medications is helpfull.


you should make certain that her parents know she does this you can certainly tell them and insist they not tell her you told them . same thing with school or if you know who her doctor is that is even better. while the doctor cant talk to you about her you can tell him about her and this behaviour. he can then speak to parents and then ask her to come in . say for her check up or whatever . at that point you will have done your bit and have done it well. see getting her to a doctor is the goal here. try my meathod i know it can work as i have used it in the past.
No, I wouldn't break up with my boyfriend for that. Listen, I don't want you to be offended, so I'm just going to spit it right out and say that I think your relationship with this Lauren girl is bad for you. You haven't done anything wrong, and yet you're blaming yourself for something that YOU were trying to PROTECT her from. You sound like a nice guy, and there are probably way more girls out there who would appreciate you more. In my opinion, I think you should break things off with Lauren, and tell her that you still want to be her friend, just in case she goes on a cutting spree. She sounds to me as if she's unstable, and she could make you go down the same way. I hope you do the right thing in the end, and I wish you all the best.
Hon, if this is a true story you need to 1) end this unhealthy relationship, 2) seek medical and psychiatric counseling, 3) take care of your soul by getting a good education, finding a good career, and becoming a productive, independent adult. I wish you good luck and I'm so sorry for the pain this world has brought upon you.