How do you prevent him from fighting for his children ONLY so that he can dump them with his mother and sisters?
These people don't look after them properly, and there have been 3 incidents already; one where my son was left at home alone crying and the sister who was supposed to be there didn't show up.
The other was when he was hurt by the sister's son and thrown on the street, was narrowly missed by a car.
And the last one with my daughter is too awful to mention.
Social services seem to want to wait until one or both my kids are badly injured before they will make a ruling.
My Ex is a doctor and German. I'm not, even though I live here in Germany.
If this was the UK, this sort of thing wouldn't be happening. How do I stop him leaving the children with people incapable of looking after them?When you get married to your first boyfriend too young, without knowing what his family values?
exhaust all legal options in Germany first................When you get married to your first boyfriend too young, without knowing what his family values?
take your children and run. get as far away as you can. its the only option.
move away as soon as possible
Get out of there asap......let him try to find you, move away or better still come back to the UK.
How would you feel if one of your kids ended up in hospital because of his neglect....don't let that happen.
Wanting to see the kids then leaving them with other people is not acceptable in any country but if that's whats happening its your duty as a mum to get the hell out of there and never look back. kids don't need a father like that.
Good Luck
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