Would you be paranoid about your boyfriend if he texted another girl at 2:35AM?

Two nights ago, my boyfriend called me at 10PM so we could work on an essay together. Then, I became extremely sleepy b/c I've been lacking a lot of sleep lately. He told me to take a nap, and said he would call to wake me up in a bit to get back to work. I agreed, but he never called me back. I ended up waking up at 2AM and freaking out because my essay was due the next day. I was extremely upset that my boyfriend could be so careless. I called him back (at 2AM) and voiced my anger. He said, ';I'm sorry, I was so tired I forgot to.';





The problem is this: When we first started going out, we would talk to each other on the phone right before we go to sleep and we would often fall asleep on the phone together. After a few months, we did the same thing except we hung up when we both got REALLY sleepy. Lately, we've stopped doing that and just talk for about 10 minutes before we sleep. Either way, he ALWAYS calls me right before he sleeps. I was so shocked and hurt that he ';forgot'; to this time that I told him to ';Go to hell'; before I hung up.





The next day, I apologized b/c although I believed I had a right to be upset with him, I shouldn't have told him to go to hell. He said it was okay and that he was sorry for not waking me up. I thought everything was fine. Today, I was playing with his iphone and accidentally clicked the ';Text messages'; icon. I saw a suspicious text that said, ';Stacy, 2:35AM.'; My initial response was SHOCK. I thought, ';why would he be texting her so late?!'; Stacy and I are friendly with one-another and go to parties/gatherings together, but we are not particularly close. I read the msg, and it said, ';Hey, what are you doing? God damn that woman is so annoying!';





I am upset that he complained to her about me, b/c in the past, we have had arguments b/c he told other girls about our fights and I did not like it. I wanted our business to be OUR business, I don't want our mutual friends meddling in. So, he agreed to not talk to other girls about our relationship anymore. I am worried that we don't talk on the phone as much anymore b/c he is on the phone with other girls. He used to be MUCH kinder and nicer to me, but now, it seems as though he doesn't like spending time with me anymore.





How would you feel? Am I being overly paranoid? Should I be hurt that in front of me, he pretends to love and adore me but behind my back says mean things like that?Would you be paranoid about your boyfriend if he texted another girl at 2:35AM?
Turn your upset into anger! Tell the guy how you feel. Say, ';Hey, am I an ANNOYING WOMAN? Ha do you know Stacy?'; He should get it. there is NO excuse for a guy treating you like that. It makes me so mad when guys think they can go behind their girlfriends backs while the girlfriend tries so hard to stay loyal. I had a guy that had something similar happen; he treated me well and our relationship got a small strain. I tried to fix it but I found out that he had been talking to his friends about ';hot private school girls'; and how if he got accepted to one he would break up with me because there are hotter girls there. So I sent him a casual text, ';So I hear all the hot girls go to private schools.'; He didn't reply back. The next day at school I told him it was over.


Your boyfriend is soooooooooo wrong for doing something like that, and by me that is unforgivable. I think he has an ego since he has a girlfriend AND this Stacy girl is interested in him. He isn't the same guy. Maybe you can bring him back, maybe not. Tell him streightforward: It's Stacy, or me. You can't have us both. And mean it. But if I were you I would bring him down a few notches by breaking up with him.





(Note: I'm not saying all guys are like this. There are a lot of great guys out there. But guys like this really tick me off.)Would you be paranoid about your boyfriend if he texted another girl at 2:35AM?
dump him


hes not worth it
i would dump his a** now he sounds like a jerk thats not something you should have to deal with nor what you deserve


talking about you and your relationship with other girls is just rude and inconsiderate
wow sounds like a real keeper. most girls with common sense would end up dumping him at this point because that is some obviously fishy stuff. but then again most girls don't have common sense so of course you'll take it and keep dating him right?