Ways to stop fighting with your man?

So this will hopefully be the last thing i ask on here for awhile,


my boyfriend of 8 months has said that i need to change or else he wont be with me even though he keeps saying he doesnt wanna break up and that i wont lose him,





so what are ways to stop fighting, or getting mad?


how can i apporach things if he does things to make me mad?


i keep repeating in my head that i will lose him thats what scares me even though he keeps saying he wants me..








how can i be a better gf?Ways to stop fighting with your man?
stop being a psycho .Ways to stop fighting with your man?
THIS IS GONNA BE A STRETCHH, BUT IF YOU CHANGE YOU WILL NOT BE THE PERSON HE WAS ATTRACTED TO FROM THE BEGINNINGING. THEN IT WILL BE HEY YOU CHANGED YOUR NOT THE PERSON I MET. TRY A MORE POSITIVE WAYS TO ADDRESS YOUR CONCERNS ABOUT WHATEVER IT IS HE'S DOING TO MAKE YOU MAD. INSTEAD OF YELLING AND LETTING HIM SEE YOUR ANGER. DETERMINE ALSO IF WHAT IT IS IS SOMETHING WORTH GIVING YOURSELF SOME GRIEF OVER LATER. IF ALL ELSE FAILS THEN MAYBE HE HAS SOME UNDERLINING ISSUES THAT HE'S GOING THROUGH YOU DO NOT KNOW ABOUT AND REGARDLESS HE'S GONNA HAVE A CHIP ON HIS SHOULDER. TALK WITH HIM AND MAKE SURE HE'S OKAY AND NOT GOING THROUGH SOMETHING AND DO NOT WANT TO WORRY YOU. REASSURE HIM THAT YOUR THERE FOR HIM.
you need to learn to let go. Most things that couples fight about are pretty ridiculous to begin with. They aren't important in the grand scheme of things so really you just need to chill and let things go. If you find yourself wanting to snap at him you have got to have enough self control to stop yourself. If you are an adult, then you can do it. Guys hate nags so select your battles care full.


To borrow a line from Dr Phil, '; Do you want to be right? Or do you want to be happy?'; It really is a choice
tough one.





used to get pissed off at mine for the slightest stuff.


i think maturity and appreciation of person must come in to play .





we realised over time that we get pissed off in the car but by the time we get in the house its yesterdays news.





i realsied that constantly telling myself 'i wont let his nonsense get ot me' does work.





now i know too how to get hm so pissed off or when i'm too pissed i step on his toe.....erase his phone...get gratification. nothing too detrimental





still love him just dont get pissed as often-once wondered if that was a sign of break up. cant say it is yet.
i go through the same thing, but if you think about it, he won't leave you if your fights are reasonable and you get mad at him for reasonable stuff, so just be yourself and be reasonable, you can't be any better than be yourself
if its worth it then he will realize youre differences and get over it
Ri you are again going to have to change... When I said that I felt he was tired of it. I was not kidding... Now you know why I was pushing you so much to change. He is pushing for it. Now you need to change for the fighting to stop... But how?


... Well, you first of all need to trust him. He is tired of being interrogated. You see he does not want to leave you because he cares a lot about you and does not want to have to be away from you. It is hard for him to stay with someone who does not listen or believe him. You get mad easily... 8 months is a long time to put up with that... Right? You said yourself that you need to trust him. You are doing all this blaming because you are always wondering is he cheating on me? Or is he smoking, because if he is we are over? This is why you question so you dont have to wonder... Then you let it get to you so much that you get frustrated and get upset and make him mad because you are not listening and fights start easily...


... You need to just start taking his word. If you really cared and wanted to change then you would... Just try it for a week. Stay calm around him. Do not think about that when you are alone. TRUST HIM. You have to do that if this relationship is going to go anywhere and I know you see that... He does to. You know what to do...


Hope that helps...