Well, the fighting is about my sister. She is 30 years old and she doesn't have a job, lives with us, has 2 kids in Ohio with her ex-husband, and she has a boyfriend that is an alcoholic with no house but a job, i think.....and she spends most of her time with her friends and boyfriend drinking and what not. I know this is kinda a personal question, so I'll understand if you don't answer. But i am in the middle of all this fighting between my mom and my dad, and i just want it to stop and i don't know what to do, i need advice, and this is was my idea of getting it.....please help!How do you stop your parents from fighting?
Tell your parents it bothers you, and you want to help. Parents don't realize when they're fighting to much, and usually kids don't say anything. So they never know its bothering anyone, and they never get that reality check.
So just be blunt, don't yell, don't get angry at them. Just next time they are fighting, walk in, and say something like ';It really upsets me when you guys fight, I wish you would stop, can I do anything to help';.
BUT...be prepared. They are stressed, they might not shower you with hugs, they might yell at you. (Ever heard of killing the messenger)....but I'll assure you, they will think about it from then on, about how their fighting is effecting you.How do you stop your parents from fighting?
You don't. You are not a part of your parents' marriage. This is their mess to clean up, and you've got to trust that they'll do so. Feel free to explain to them that you feel the situation has gotten out of hand, but don't ever be so naive as to think that you can ';stop'; your parents from fighting. It's not your battle.
ok i kinda had the same problem with my sister expect my sisters boyfriedn cheated on her many times and my sister wouldnt break up with him what u do is get a bunch of flowers and put it on her bed sayin a letter that says i love u from ur secret admirer tell her u found it at the door and make sure her boyfriend sees it then he gets mad at her and breaks up with her try it may help 4 ur parents i guess u cant stop them fighting just go outside for a walk so u cant hear them good luck
First of all being in the middle of a fight is hard and im sorry u have to go through it.
Ok so u need to tell ur parents how u feel. Let them know ur hurt every time an argument breaks out. if they start arguing with u what ever u do don't argue back! keep a calm voice and take deep breaths and listen to wat they have to say then calmly tell them how u feel. Communication is the best medicine. God Bless and good luck.
Remind them why they fell in love in the first place. Get out the old albums, pics and home videos. Talk to them, don't yell or throw a tantrum, but talk about how it effects everyone.
Good Luck!
Have them sit down and discuss it. There's nothing else you can do besides that.
pull a gun on them
then nobody will feel like talking for awhile
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