How to stop fighting with your boyfriend?

I've been dating someone for three years now. He's great but we've been fighting a lot these past couple of months on really stupid stuff. It seems easy to stop fighting but its really not. How do we stop? I really love him and don't want to lose him over this.How to stop fighting with your boyfriend?
i want the answer to this question too!


i have the same problem but ive only been with mine 10 months, we known each other since high school but dang hes acting like a kid. getting jealous over me working with guys and stupid stuff.





i try and talk to my boyfriend and convince him that losing our relationship over a stupid argument that isnt gonna matter to us tomorrow isnt worth it!!


tell him to look back on all the good times youve had n you want to keep them coming!





im starting to realize it but if he doesnt stop the arguing over really dumb stuff, then maybe hes just tired of me?





maybe its the same for you too =/ i hope not.


im sorry to say it.





but if the arguing is on your part, try not to get mad at such little things or just tell him you gotta do soemthing so you can get over your madness.





if its him =/ then i gotta say it again maybe hes using this as an excuse to be mad and be away from you =[


sucksss


good luck with everything, i hope the best works out for youHow to stop fighting with your boyfriend?
If you are fighting a lot there is usually an underlying issue that has nothing to do with the fight at all or anything about how much you care for one another. It might be good to take the high road on a few arguments for the sake of the relationship and or go to therapy, doesn't make you crazy....promise.
okay, don't worry about 'not fighting/arguing', thats natural...





but every so often, just let him win the argument and apologize, even if you're sooo obviously in the right; just go with it and he'll appreciate it. and don't do it in the hopes he will next time, he might and that will be a bonus but don't count on it.. just say every 3rd time, just apologize or agree with whatever nonsense he says!