Tuesday, August 10, 2010

How do you stop fighting with your boyfriend when you're spending less time together?

he just moved out and lives 30 mins from me, his jobs next to my house. but i just got a job too. how can i work things out so we fight lessHow do you stop fighting with your boyfriend when you're spending less time together?
Communicate. Fighting often results from a lack of understanding; but,when you throw stress and tension into the mix, it can get even worse. You two aren't used to this change yet and the only way to get through it is to talk to each other and make sure you each let each other know how you feel. If you miss him, visit him at work or text him to call you on his break. My gf and I were together for 4 years, one of which was spent 400 miles apart. I found that fighting is another way of provoking the expression of emotion, which can diminish especially when the two of you are leading separated/busy lifestyles. You have to show him you still care. :)How do you stop fighting with your boyfriend when you're spending less time together?
Sometimes it's better to consider taking some time off than to keep fighting.





If you're always mad then you won't get a chance to appreciate what you love about one another.





Most of the couples that I've seen work things out had to spend a little time away from each other to think about things. If you are really meant to be with each other, then you'll still be there in the end.
Depends on what your fighting about. If your fighting over anything the best thing to do is, give eachother some space for a while. I don't mean never talk to him, just call em once in a while and ask him how his day was. but don't try and force anything cause that will make things worse.
communication, mutual understanding, compassion, blah blah





is it a healthy relationship for you? consider what you are needing and maybe talk to him about it. also consider what he is needing.

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