What if your boyfriend accidentally hit you.....?

My boyfriend got in a fist fight with his best friend, and i stepped into the middle of it to try to stop them. My boyfriend took a swing at his friend, and that's when i stepped in....he accidenatlly hit me....


Now i can't go near him without being jumpy and skiddish, no matter how hard i try. It scared me to be near him...what can i do to make this fear go away. He's apologized a zillion and one times and he seems to want to be near me more now, but it scares me to be around him...what do i do?


P.S: it wasn't a soft punch either...it really hurt. It left bruises on the side of my face for days....I'm still kinda bruised, and i can't shake the image of him hitting me any time i'm around him...Please? any advice on what to do?What if your boyfriend accidentally hit you.....?
I'm sorry to hear that.The only you can overcome this fear is by spending time with your boyfriend. Since it was just an accident and wasn't intentional at all, you could forgive him. If he really likes you, he would know how to wipe out this incident out of your mind with affection. Good luck and learn a lesson from this.What if your boyfriend accidentally hit you.....?
Just keep thinking and know that your boyfriend didnt mean it,


Think of all the goood times, and whenever the fighting image comes it rub it off and think about the good times,


Go and tell your boyfriend that you just need sometime to get back to normal, and you know that it was a accident,


Its just that you just wanna stay careful for a few days;
Someone who gets in to a really bad fist fight with his best friend doesn't sound like a good friend or a good boyfriend. He seems hot under the collar and guys like that always says there sorry too fast and too often.


.It's a New Year coming with someone just waiting to be your boyfriend. Be Safe.
Since you are sure of yourself that it's by accident, then you should calm down and face your face. Ensure yourself that it's just an accident since you believe in it. There is no point to be afraid if you think that it's an accident UNLESS of course, he had abused you before (not by accident).


Or take a break and get some time alone by yourself and think through it.





If IT IS an ACCIDENT...then you've got no reasons to worry too much.
i don't know if you've ever been in a fight especially with guys and i know from experience when i get in a fight your testosterone and adrenaline is pumping and your heart is racing and you go into like a frenzy and i've hit a couple teachers by accident i think this is what happened i really don't think it was an accident he probably hit you before he noticed it was you i'd give him a second chance
for me the best way to get over my fear is to face it. The only way i would be able to overcome something like this is to face it. Get CLOSER to him. Hug him, kiss him deeply.





Maybe the thought makes you cringe but it will eventually get better. he still loves you. it was on accident, he hasn't done that before and won't again, and he apologized
how old are you, it was a bloody accident, get over it, you shouldnt jump in between fights like that,just let them deal with it. you are either looking for attention or he has threatened you so if you just looking for attention and you keep going on with this he will probably leave you. if you seriously feel threatened by him, well leave.!!!!
NeveEVER step inbetween to guys when they are physically fighting!!! No matter what, I know you don't wanna see that but just let them brawl it out, never do that again! Take it slow, face it okay don't be so hard on him, I understand that your scared but it's okay alright. And for everybody saying it was on purpose, get a life...come on now really? Good luck though chica [=
He didn't mean to


And it was kind of stupid to jump literally in between a fist fight between two GUYS lol


Just understand he really didn't mean to it was an accident


And if u hadn't of stepped in u wouldn't have gotten hurt


Just try to take a deep sleep


Calm urself down


Realize he'd never do that intentionally!


He loves you :]
Well i think that you should let go of the incident..yeah i know its difficult but remember that he did not intend to hit you and it was accidental. if however he had intended to hit you than that would be a different case. if i were you i would understand that it was just an accident and let it go.
i think the best thing to do right now is to make yourself go near him. like, slowly walk up and give him a hug or hold his hand. this should help renew your physical closeness as well as your comfortibility.


right now you also need to make sure that he knows that your trying, and that you still want to be near him. he might start think that your afraid of him
Technically it is your fault. You jumped in front of his fist!





He did not do it on purpose. He is not a bad guy. You have no right to be 'scared' of him.





Next time you should think before you go throwing yourself in between two swinging fists. As if you could have stopped it anyway.
Somebody seriously screwed up.





Either him for being a rabbid chawawa, or





you for stepping in as the punch was being thrown.





If it was the first, you're right to be scared and should walk. Otherwise you might want to take some self-ownership.
Try to forget it or to realize that the punch was not meant for you and that he didn't want to hurt you. If you really can't stand being around him because of this then that's not good and you should probably split.
As long as he didn't hit you on purpose, it should be fine. You're just shaken up. Stay away from him for a few days so you can calm down. If he hit you on purpose however, you should leave him right away and make sure he can never contact you.
Aww. i would just forget about it. After all his intentions were not towards you but his friend, and i'm sure he was really sorry. So you should have nothing to worry about. Accidents happen and sometimes they're unforgetable but the best thing to do is just forgive him.
I think you should forget and forgive....but tell him how you feel about the situation and these images that keep coming up every time you come around him...and also how he should probably not ever fight around you or get into arguments..maybe this will stop the images.
aww this is sad. jsut sit down and try to talk about it, if you cry it's ok you can let it out and show him you scared....maybe he'll approch you slower and more carefully and with time you'll get over it.
it's not good that he hit you accidentally...plus also theres a remembrance.hmmm i think you need to relax,sit back and give time for yourself to think over it.
then. he . is. a. FOOL!!!!! you are far to special for a boyfriend. do you have a time machine? do YOU have a lemonade stand? THATS. WHAT. I. THOUGHT.
OMGSH!


thats crazy ****! well forgive him;


he's begging for your forgiveness.


i dont think he would ever hit you.


and ouch!
ACCIDENT!!! there's nothing you can do about it. I'm sure he's sorry. The person who said he'd do it again, but not being an accident, that person is a butt hole
it will eventually pass. you're just reacting like that because a person that you really care about did something like that to you although it was an accident. just give it time. good luck!
Counsling really would help and it sounds like he didnt mean to hit u , you just were trying to stop it and he already swung and it was 2 late
ask yourself this before you do anything (I with I would have...): Will my life be better or worse without him? the first answer that pops in your head is the right answer... go with it.
it was just an accident.....he must be really sorry if he apologized a zillion times......try not think about the fight....
if you say its an accedent and really like this boy, try to pick wich is more important, being with him, or keeping that image...
It Was Accidentally.Try To Not Be Scared.
it was an accident, forgive and forget, and if you cant break up with him. theres lots of guys out there who will be willing to hit you on purpose.
I would hit him back(mayb just mayb it would u wouldn't b afraid anymore)=)
You should've been doing your chores instead of whatever it is you were doing. That way you wouldn't have gotten hit.