I really really need your boyfriend help, please.?

We ve been together for 7 months.


I m his first serious realtionship.


and first person hes ever meant i love you.





We fight but they only are like 5 mins.


but we have fights where we hang out and he ll say something stupid,


hes sarcastic and he ll just say i m taking you home and we ll sit in front my house with me crying and him saying hes sorry.








well last night.


we were watching super troopers and he said good times, to the guys smoking and he said he misses smoking but he wont do it because hes loves me but than he said he was kidding about that so i just sat there and said nothing, better than fighting. than he said if you wanna break up dont say anything so i dint say anything i thought he was being stupid and than he said ok you wanna break up theres no turning back and he drove me home, i didnt cry like i used to because i ve realized it didnt get anywheer,


so he parked in front of shhetz and said that i broke up with him and that he hopes i regret not saying anything.


so i started crying and said theres nothing i can say that wil make you want me but i love you and i dont wanna break up.


so he hugged me and said that he didnt mean it and that he was just mad.








and drove on like nothing happened.





do guys do this when they are mad?





we love each other and dont wanna break up,


so please dont say to break up.








but i dont know what i can do to stop this from happeneing how i can get over things easily.





please helpI really really need your boyfriend help, please.?
You dont have to blame you like he is making it sound. He seems to be like a Taurus to me and he is very mood swingish and omgosh it will take a toll on you emotionally as it is now hon. You right now are being torn emotionally apart and you will not be able to take it forever. And this is probably why he does not have very serious relationships. He freaks out when he wants and then apologizes and expects you to move on with it.


You dont want to break up with him? Fine, lets see what I can come up wth.... Alright you need to confront him about it and stop letting him do that. DO NOT stand for it. If that means its over so be it. Tell him what you just told me he needs to know if anything is going to change.


If he does not change you have to let him go. Do you hear me. He will tear you apart doing that I know lots of people like ti as well. You just have to be careful alright. He cannot help it sometimes. So if he does not change then you have to do it for him. And leave that... IT is not healthy for you. And you can find way better...


You will be okay.


Talk to hiim...