How to stop a fight with your boyfriend?

So about an hour ago my boyfriend told me he was going to colorado for the weekend. I asked him if I could go to a party with my friends and I promised I wouldn't drink or talk to other guys. Right after that he got mad because ';he doesn't want me to mess up or do anything stupid'; and then told me he didn't even want to talk to me. I haven't gone to a party since i've started dating him which was about a year and a few months ago, and right now he doesn't even want to talk to me and is acting like he doesn't even care, and i'm sitting here pretty much miserable. I already tried apologizing but that pretty much made things worse, any suggestions on ending this completely stupid fight?


-btw me and my boyfriend never fight so this is pretty rare.How to stop a fight with your boyfriend?
You need to stand up for yourself, if your not allowed to go to a party then he can't go to colorado. It's clear that he thinks he can walk all over you, you need to show him who's boss. If you want to go to a party then go and him saying that he doesn't want you to mess up or do anything stupid that shows that he doesn't trust you and for a relationship to work there's got to be trust, so tell him it's over because think about what he said it's clear he doesn't respect or trust you and that's not good enough you deserve much better that.How to stop a fight with your boyfriend?
Are you in a controlling relaionship? I know my friend is in one but she refuses to adknowledge it because she ';loves'; her boyfriend. Sine you said you guys rarely fight I wouldn't think you're in an abusive relationship though. Its only been an hour...I would give him a little bit more time and get away from the situation for right now because his emotions are still anger so just let them cool down and then try talking to him when you feel hes calm. Don't try to to talk or argue with him when hes mad because it might just make things worse.
So he can go off to Colorado for a weekend and do who knows what with who knows who and it's suppose to be ok. But you're not allowed to go to a party with your friends? What's wrong with this picture?


This is a huge red flag and you need to think about why he's so possessive and insecure and how much more controlling he's going to become.
well if he really cares about you who would j7ust forget about the whole thing and just let you have more fun b/c in a relationship everyone in the relationship has to have their own space
You need to be very careful with this one. I was in a relationship that started out like this. not being able to go out because he doesn't want you to ';make any mistakes'; but he is allowed to go out. NO WAY! do NOT let him do that. It is way to controlling and he may have some issues you dont know about. Next time he pulls crap like that tell him you don't want him to go out at all. See if he likes it and explain to him calmly when you are not fighting and both relaxed how it makes you feel when he wont let you go out. You both need your space and the relationship wont work ever if he wont trust you.