Monday, August 16, 2010

How do you get someone to stop being your friend, but not hurt any feelings?

OKay, so I already have a boyfriend, but I was at a sleepover with my friends, and when most of us were sleeping, I was awake and so was a guy(my friend's friend). I got up to get some water, and to change while i was at it. So I went to the bathroom and didn't lock the door, I thought everybody was sleeping. I still had my cheerleading outfit on because I wasn't in the mood to change into my PJ's. When I got out to get some water, the guy was there and he was smiling, trying to impresss me or something. I tried to push him out of my way, but then he grabbed my shirt and pulled me back, or at least tried to rip it off. I thought that this was unbelievable. He was my friend, too. He knows I have a boyfriend and stuff. He was really annoying and yeah. I just got my water and tried to drink it. He pushed the glass onto my shirt and you could almost see through. I want to not be friends with him any more, I told my boyfriend, but I don't want a fight and stuff. Help?How do you get someone to stop being your friend, but not hurt any feelings?
You need to really not worry about this guy's feelings. He gave up the right to feelings when he was pawing at you and acting like a jerk and if anyone doesn't like it they are just as bad as he is.How do you get someone to stop being your friend, but not hurt any feelings?
Get away from the one creep that tried to rip off your shirt and go to an adult. I know it sounds REALLY dumb and like an elementary school thing to do, but it really works. If that doesn't work which rarely ever happens just get away from that ';friend.';
Just ignore him and avoid him. He'll eventually get the message. If he tries to talk to you tune him out, tell him to leave you alone.
Ouch. This is a toughie.


I would say that if it were me, I would not go to a sleep over again.


I would definitely not go where he would be.


Be real careful, and try to have some time to think about it.


Do you have someone you can ask about what choices you have?


I would definitely consider making myself some guidelines for going places, and that would include places that I would not want to be.

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